The article written by Victor Flowers
My husband and I have divided up responsibilities, and that is how we have our house running so smoothly.  I am in charge of cooking 3 nights a week, while he cooks 4 nights a week.  Whoever doesn’t cook, cleans that night.  I do the grocery shopping because I enjoy it, and he pays all the bills.  I research our options for services, like on http://www.ExpertSatellite.com/ and such, and give him a summary of what I’ve found.  He’s in charge of the yard work, and I am in charge of watering the flowers.  He washes and dries all the clothes, but I fold and put them all away.  I mop.  He vacuums.  I collect all the household trash, and he takes it out to the curb, and brings it back every week.  I dust and straighten.  He makes repairs.  This may seem complicated and a strange way of doing things, but it works for us.  This way, we don’t have to spend time arguing about who does what because it has all already been decided.